After Your Divorce: 3 Tips To Help Your Summer Go As Smoothly As Possible

While it is true that a child custody agreement is normally settled when you get divorced, there are a few things that parents will want to keep in mind when summer comes along. For parents with children who are coming up on their first summer after their divorce, you may not realize that there could be some bumps in the road coming up during what should be three warm and fun months. Here are a few things you'll want to keep in mind to help the summer go as smoothly as possible:

Make Sure to Keep Open Lines of Communication with Your Ex.

It is important that you communicate with your child's parent, especially during the summer. You will want to ensure that you keep the other parent in the loop about changes that occur in the summer, such as vacations, activities, etc. If you find that you are having difficulty communicating with your ex, consider bringing in a third-party mediator who can offer some assistance.

Try to Schedule Your Vacations in Advance – and Talk to Your Ex About Them.

This one bounces off of the aforementioned tip about keeping lines of communication open. You may want to go on a Disney Cruise this summer, but the only time that you can get off work is during the same time that your child is supposed to be with your ex during the summer. This doesn't have to be a problem. If you plan your vacation in advance and know that this is a problem ahead of time, you can speak to your ex about it and see if you can switch out weeks. If your ex agrees, you can get an agreement drafted that you both sign and have notarized or approved by the court so that it is legally binding (just in case you have any future issues). This will be a temporary schedule for this summer only and it helps to avoid any last-minute conflict that failing to plan could have caused.

Remember It's Okay for Your Child to Miss the Other Parent.

During the summer, things are usually much different for your child than during the school year. Your child will often see one parent more and the other less, so don't get discouraged or upset if they are missing the parent that they are seeing less. Don't take it personally. Simply focus on the time that you are getting with them and make the most of it.

If you need some guidance navigating the child custody laws of summer, don't hesitate to reach out to your divorce lawyer, such as a t